hello
I’m E and im 20 years old. Its a long story, but since I lost my grandma to cancer 2 years ago, I’ve been feeling down. It seems like nothing goes right and everything in my life is so messy. I cant focus in my day to day and my parents are fighting more (not related to grandma dying). i got a boyfriend but he doesn’t really pay attention to me. my circle of friends don’t really hang out so much now that we are all starting to work. my hobby is to draw and to play computer games so I feel alone most of the time.
I am cognizant about my feelings so I know they are not warranted? like my life is ok I have a stable job and there is no real stressors in my life. I don’t think I am depressed and I can still function well at work despite the lack of focus. But I think maybe I should talk to someone. I don’t think I can talk to my friends because they don’t have time for me and they don’t understand.
Should i speak to a life coach, psychologist or therapist? how about platforms like betterhelp – is it good? would a psychiatrist be better – maybe there is something more wrong with me? whats the difference between all these options? I don’t mind paying more money but i want to have something effective for me.
thanks!
Hello E,
I’m really sorry to hear about what you’ve been going through. It’s not easy dealing with the loss of someone close, especially when other areas of your life feel unsettled. It’s great that you’re thinking about reaching out for support. Let’s break down the different options so you can figure out what might be the best fit for you.
1. Psychologist
2. Therapist
3. Psychiatrist
4. Life Coach
5. Online Therapy Platforms (e.g., BetterHelp)
Which Option Is Best for You?
Given what you’ve shared, it sounds like you could benefit from talking to a therapist or psychologist. Since you’re feeling down and struggling to focus, even though you’re still functioning at work, a therapist could help you process your emotions and find ways to feel more connected and focused in your life.
If your feelings intensify or if you start to experience more severe symptoms (e.g., significant changes in mood, sleep, appetite, or ability to function), you might consider seeing a psychiatrist to explore whether there’s a need for medication.
Next Steps
It’s commendable that you recognize the need for support and are proactive about seeking help. That’s a strong step towards feeling better. You don’t have to go through this alone, and there are professionals ready to support you on this journey.
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