High-functioning depression is often invisible – masked by achievement, humour, and composure. But its toll is real.
When we think about the type of person who would typically embody a depressive state, it’s always someone who is sad, withdrawn and, notably, unable to function.
This is, admittedly, a pretty narrow view of a condition so prevalent that it’s known as “the common cold of mental illness”.
While we don’t “catch” depression, like the cold, it can have varying effects on different people.
Which means that it is possible to have depression…and have the people around you be none the wiser.
Depression is a complex, debilitating, yet invisible illness, and this has never been more evident when it comes to high-functioning depression.
Those with high-functioning depression live out their days under a heavy emotional burden, yet they’re able to mask it behind smiles and success.
And this just makes it all the harder to detect.
Recognising the Signs
There is no one reason for why depression can develop; it can actually be attributed to a variety of causes, including genetics, stressful or traumatic events, or certain health conditions and medications.
While the outcome of this often translates to a more obvious display of depression for many, there are still a number who are able to compartmentalise, repressing their emotional responses for as long as they need to put up a normal front.
And this is why it can be hard to believe that those with high-functioning depression are suffering at all – they still appear to excel in their studies or careers, maintain relationships, and fulfil responsibilities.
In fact, high-functioning depression isn’t even considered a clinical condition.
But it doesn’t change the fact that those who have it can still show typical symptoms of depression, including:
- Feelings of sadness, helplessness or hopelessness.
- A lack of energy, or fatigue.
- Anhedonia, or waning interest in activities once seen as enjoyable.
- Changes in appetite.
- Having sleep troubles, or sleeping too much.
- Problems with focus or motivation.
- Having negative thoughts, and even suicidal ideation.
The point is that despite these difficulties, they’re still able to navigate their daily lives with relative aplomb.
When Depression Is Deliberately Hidden
There are a few theories as to why this is so.
Using Life as a Distraction
One reason as to why those with high-functioning depression are capable of managing everyday tasks and social interactions so well could be because they’re using the demands of daily living to distract themselves from their feelings of negativity or emptiness.
As it is, the idea of distraction has been noted to aid with emotional regulation for those experiencing anxiety-related or depressive disorders.
By focusing on their external obligations and staying busy, they can temporarily escape from the overwhelming feelings plaguing their minds.
Coping Through Productivity
Sublimation has also been hypothesised as another reason to explain the high-functioning aspect of this form of depression.
In psychological terms, sublimation is the process of channelling negative emotions and behaviours into something more constructive.
In this case, rather than giving into the urge to give up your job or isolate yourself from your friends, sublimation becomes a coping mechanism that redirects your energy into your achievements, helping you maintain a semblance of normalcy.
Feeling Uncomfortable Showing Vulnerability
It’s also possible that those with high-functioning depression work hard to maintain the impression that they’re doing fine because they feel the need to conceal their condition.
This need could be born from cultural stigma, an issue more often faced in Asian societies, where those with mental illnesses find it challenging to be honest about their struggles due to a fear of judgement.
It could also simply come from the belief that you’re able to power through so as to avoid impacting your work or worrying your loved ones, and that your depressive state will disappear eventually.
What it results in is purposeful effort being made go back to your everyday programming despite the additional psychological load, just so you can keep up the façade.
Additionally, it’s also thought that the form of depression they present is low in severity.
Regardless, it can wear away at your psyche over time, weakening your mental defences, leading to burnout and impairment.
Essentially, you’ll find yourself in a state that is unmistakably seen as classical depression.
Retaining Your High-Functioning Status – But Without the Depression
As with any illness, depression is best treated before it gets worse.
But we don’t always realise when we have it, and this is doubly true for those who are high-functioning.
So if you’ve noticed a friend or family member has been looking a little too blue lately, or losing interest in hobbies they used to love, be vigilant towards any other ways they may be inadvertently expressing their emotions.
In addition, according to Dr Jacqueline Cheung, a Cebu-based psychiatrist: “It’s very important for the family to let the patient know that they are there any time that he or she needs them.
“A constant showering of support and encouragement can definitely go a long way.”
And if you feel you’ve been displaying multiple signs of depression – such as erratic eating and sleeping patterns, or too many sudden bouts of tears – then it’s time to open up to someone.
Your path to better health will normally include a mix of treatment options, such as:
Lifestyle Adjustments
Changes to your daily routine can have a positive impact on your mental wellbeing. This can look like getting more good quality sleep, following a nutritious diet, having an exercise plan, and engaging in activities that can keep your mind balanced, such as learning meditation techniques or cultivating new hobbies.
Psychotherapy
Psychotherapy offers a safe space for us to develop healthy coping mechanisms whilst exploring the underlying causes of our depression – and understanding why we feel the need to hide it in the first place.
Medication
Depending on the severity of your condition, antidepressants may be prescribed to help improve mood and emotion.
Just because you’re high-functioning doesn’t mean you don’t deserve treatment. There’s nothing wrong in asking for help – especially when you need it.
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