Getting enough sleep is not always enough to ensure we are fully rested – but being able to achieve the seven different types of rest we need can do the trick.
“I’m so tired,” is a sentiment many of us are all too familiar with.
Maybe it’s because work (or a little too much bedtime scrolling) kept us up most of the night, leaving us with a paltry four hours of sleep.
But what if a lack of shuteye is not the only reason we get fatigued?
When it comes to recovery from exhaustion, sleep, while essential, is only one solution. Human beings are complex – we do not just get physically tired. We can get mentally drained, emotionally overloaded, socially overwhelmed, and creatively depleted.
To truly feel recharged, we need different kinds of rest, and there are seven that can nourish different parts of us. It is time to explore what they are – and how to actually get them.
Physical Rest
This is what comes to mind when most people think of rest, and comes in two forms. It can be passive, requiring us to sleep, nap, or even just lie down, or active, which involves restorative activities like stretching or massaging. Both forms can give a boost to your energy levels.
You know you need physical rest when:
- Your exhaustion is persistent.
- Your muscles are sore or stiff.
- You experience aches and pains, and are more susceptible to falling sick.
- You rely too much on caffeine to function.
Tips for Recharging
- Get seven to nine hours of quality sleep each night.
- If you feel tired during the day, take a short nap of no more than 30 minutes.
- Add some stretch breaks or do some yoga to ease stress and muscle tension, especially if your lifestyle is largely sedentary.
- Consult a healthcare provider if you have persistent sleep problems that sleep hygiene practices are unable to resolve.
Mental Rest
Mental rest is about giving our minds a break from the constant problem-solving and information-processing we do. This is especially important living in an era where juggling dozens of different tasks at once is the norm. This can be a huge drain on our mental resources, often manifesting as racing thoughts or difficulties concentrating.
You know your brain needs a break when:
- You are struggling to focus, or feel overcome by brain fog.
- You often forget things or make small mistakes.
- You feel overwhelmed by tasks, whether big or small.
- You often feel irritable or anxious.
Tips for Recharging
- Take short breaks throughout the day.
- Instead of keeping your list of tasks in your head, have them noted on paper or a digital document.
- Perform mindless tasks that help clear your mind, like folding laundry or washing dishes.
- Minimise multitasking to reduce mental clutter.
- Try restorative practices like meditation or mindfulness, or go outside for a walk and a few moments of quiet.
Emotional Rest
If we are always suppressing our true emotions for someone else, we can end up emotionally exhausted. Getting emotional rest means having the space to be authentic and honest about how we actually feel. It is about relinquishing the constant need to people-please, or project a “strong” or “amicable” image.
You know you are not getting enough emotional rest when:
- You feel the need to hide or mask your feelings around others.
- You are compelled to say “yes” to others when you do not want to.
- You tell others you are fine even when you are not.
- You feel emotionally burdened or numb.
Tips for Recharging
- Spend time with those you trust and can be real with.
- Journal how you feel without censoring yourself.
- Set healthy boundaries.
- Seek therapy as needed.
Social Rest
Whether or not we are extroverts, it is important to keep in mind that not all social interactions are positive. Some people can energise us, while others deplete.
Social rest is about stepping back from exhausting relationships or situations, and prioritising those that feel safe and supportive.
You know your social battery is drained when:
- You always feel the need to be “on” around others.
- You spend too much time with people who take more than give.
- You feel lonely when others are around.
- You dread social gatherings, or just avoid them.
Tips for Recharging
- Limit time spent with draining individuals.
- Focus more on relationships that are positive, in which you are allowed to be yourself.
- Schedule intentional alone time.
- Turn down social invites that do not match your energy levels.
Sensory Rest
Modern life – full of noisy traffic, bright screens, and never-ending notifications – can leave our senses overstimulated. It is important that we give our nervous system the occasional break.
You know you are troubled by sensory overload when:
- You have developed a sensitivity to too much light or noise.
- Too much screen time leaves you feeling drained, or with a headache or eye soreness.
- You are constantly using a screen (or multiple).
- You often feel irritated or impatient.
- You crave silence and peace.
Tips for Recharging
- Minimise notifications, or put your electronic devices away for a while.
- Dim the lights, and spend a few minutes in complete silence.
- Listen to calming music, or meditate.
- Step outside for some sunshine and fresh air.
Creative Rest
While this is essential for those working in the creative field, creative rest is not just for artists. Anyone who brainstorms and problem-solves needs it – and that is most of us. It is important for us to rediscover our imagination, and reconnect with our sense of wonder.
You know you are creatively fatigued when:
- You feel stuck or uninspired, and struggle to think innovatively.
- Ideas feel stale.
- Work feels tedious.
- You lack a sense of wonder or joy.
Tips for Recharging
- Spend time in nature and appreciate its beauty.
- Engage with inspiring content, such as visiting a museum or listening to an album.
- Try creative hobbies, like colouring, just for fun.
- Give yourself time away from a creative project so you can come back to it with fresh eyes.
- Switch up your routine or environment.
- Leave yourself with some time to daydream.
Spiritual Rest
Spiritual rest involves connecting to something larger than ourselves, whether through religion, community or identity. It can help deepen our sense of purpose or belonging.
You know you need more spiritual fulfilment when:
- You feel disconnected or aimless.
- You question your purpose.
- You have a sense of isolation, or feel that your life only revolves around daily responsibilities.
- You feel empty or cynical.
Tips for Recharging
- Practice meditation or prayer.
- Engage with a community that shares your values.
- Volunteer for a cause you care about.
- Practice gratitude, and spend time reflecting on your values and actions.
Making Your Rest Count
Exhaustion may be normalised in our hustle culture, but we need to keep in mind that rest of any kind is a necessity to our overall well-being.
So find time to plug them into your busy day – but remember that writing it into your schedule doesn’t promise a quick fix. We need to manage our expectations when it comes to how we choose to rest.
“Expectations that are immovable inevitably invite stress and worry, and hence having expectations towards relaxation is a contradiction in itself,” cautioned Ms Lysia Tan, clinical psychologist from Mind What Matters, in CNA.
When you’re tired, just give yourself permission to respond with true rest, in whatever form you need it. Understanding when you need a break, and taking meaningful action on it, may be one of the healthiest habits you ever build.
External References
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